Trying to think up something that's going to sound hot in the heat of the moment can be tough — not to mention, things can turn awkward pretty quickly if it doesn't end up coming off as sexy as it did in your head. Plus, if you and your partner haven't talked dirty to each other before, is it fine to just throw something out there? How can you ask her if it's something that she's into? Are there any phrases that are always off limits? Before you start dropping lines from Fifty Shades Of Grey and hoping for the best, there are some steps you should take that will help things go smoothly and make dirty talk hotter for both of you. We asked a few experts to share their best advice for how to talk dirty — and had some real women give us the dirty details of the hottest thing a guy has ever said to them in the heat of the moment.
What do they want me to say? What if I go too far? Dirty talk is an often overlooked but very powerful aspect of eroticism. It activates the imagination, supercharges sexual polarity, and adds a steamy air of liberation to your naked shenanigans.