I was asked that question this week by a friend of mine, a graduate student whose dissertation looks at evolving attitudes towards sexual abuse. Her teacher was a married man in his 30s, and he gave these lessons out of his home while his wife was away. One day, she felt his erection driving against her. Their sexual relationship only ended when Deborah and her family moved away. That she was a preteen and he in his 30s was irrelevant. But it always did. But I wanted to write about this story because it fits in well with one of the most troubling aspects of the myth of male weakness: the idea that adult men might be powerless to resist the charms of a seductive teen or even pre-teen girl.
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